Transforming Your Beliefs About Your
you be shocked if you were told that your break up could be
the best thing that ever happened to you? The statement
might even anger you if you have just had a break up. You
would be skeptical and furious to hear such a statement if
you are feeling miserable right now and thinking that you
“will never be happy again.” Yet, your break up could be the
best thing that ever happened to you!
soon as your relationship breaks up, you have two choices.
Your life after break up depends on the choice that you
make. Choice number one is that you can consider your break
up as the worst thing that ever happened to you and that you
will never fall in love and be happy again. Choice number
two is that you can consider your break up as a golden
opportunity to become a strong, powerful, empowered person
who can achieve ANYTHING in life. In other words, your break
up can make you or break you. The choice is yours.
following top secrets are for those who have taken choice
Are Responsible For Your Happiness
is no denying the fact that you have had a break up. But why
do you feel miserable? What is it about a break up that
makes you so sad?
examine yourself carefully, you will realize that you feel
so miserable because you made your partner responsible for
your happiness and sense of well being. You needed your ex
partner to feel worthy, to feel loved, to feel valuable. The
purpose and meaning of your life depended on your ex staying
in your life as your partner. No wonder you feel miserable
now that you have lost your ex.
you made another person responsible for your happiness, you
forgot and denied your potential to love yourself, make
yourself happy, and to understand your value in this world.
You forgot that the fountain of joy lies within. You forgot
that only one person can make you
NOW is the time to transform your beliefs. So far, you
focused on your partner. Now, focus on yourself. Love and
cherish yourself. Learn to identify the source of joy deep
within your being. You will be surprised at the positive
changes that begin to take place in your life immediately.
Can Identify Your Life Purpose
that you have learned to love yourself, you can easily move
on to the next step—identifying the purpose of your life.
Have a look at the following questions. What is life? Why do
you think you are alive? What is your purpose in life? Try
to find an answer to these three important questions and any
other question on life that pops into your
can find the answers anywhere; so keep an open mind. The
answers might spring from within you. You might find them in
your Holy Book. Or you might find them in the works of
writers such as Deepak Chopra, Anthony Robbins, Neale Donald
Walsch, and so on. You can even find them in the lyrics of
your favorite song.
down your purpose in life in your journal. Once you have a
clear purpose and a goal, start working toward it. Fall in
love with it! Get passionate about it! Do you remember the
misery of your break up now? I am sure you
this stage, you feel exhilarated and empowered. You will
find that your sense of self-worth and ability to enjoy life
are coming back to you in leaps and bounds. You will surely
feel that your break up is the best thing that ever happened
to you. All you did was to create a major change in your
belief system and a shift in your consciousness—two factors
that can lead to roaring success in life.
An amazing way to reboot your belief system and create
a better and new reality for yourself after a breakup is the
Belief Buster Program. Click here to learn